“Mama
was furious with daddy. She watched with a heavy heart as my small head
disappeared beneath the murky depths of Lake Kemp. Mama was not a
swimmer—neither was her baby girl. Daddy just looked at mama, laughing, a bit
puzzled over her hysteria. ‘She will be fine!’ he called to her. And after a
few moments, I bobbed up above the water line, spitting and giggling."
We were supposed to be fishing. In fact, mama had agreed to this lake trip because fishing was safe. Anybody can stand on the bank and throw a line in the water. Daddy, however, had decided it was time I learned how to swim. So when he suddenly threw me into the water, all mama knew was her baby was being pitched into the darkness, into the unknown, and she could only hope I would surface again.
This is how life is for most of us. Just when you think everything is safe and you have control over your life, something comes along and pitches you into the unknown. This has certainly been true throughout my life.
Life has been good. Life has been bad. Life has been joyous, beautiful, wonderful, trying, terrible, tearful, enriching, exuberating, exciting, and often downright disappointing and frustrating. But somehow, through the grace of God, we get through it. Life, we learn, is an ongoing saga of being pitched into ever-deeper waters, as our resolve and faith are tested, again and again. We have to dig deep within our soul, spitting and kicking to cope with these challenges, and yes, even try to find the humor in them as we fight to resurface once more.
When my oldest daughter became ill at age thirteen, I had no idea we were about to be plunged into dark waters. Thinking she had the flu, I expected she would be well in a matter of days. Little did I know then, fourteen years would pass before we would resurface.
My daughter’s fight with adhesion-related disorder, also known simply as adhesions, was the most difficult test of my life. The test was emotional, as I struggled to understand how to help my daughter deal with her pain and symptoms. The test was political, as I fought a medical establishment that has largely turned a deaf ear to adhesions sufferers like my daughter. The test was heart-wrenching, as my daughter suffered terribly, often screaming in pain, but I could not help her. No parent (or family) should suffer the pain of helplessness when a child is so terribly sick.
Fortunately, in life's trials, God provides us with coaches and instructors. We have people who support us, who fight for us. Those brave souls stand waiting, arms outstretched on the bank, for they rejoice in our success.
(Thank you, family and friends).
And, deep within, we have our own spirit. The God-given desire and strength to push upward, above the trials of life, above the darkness that threatens to overtake us. Each time we break the surface, we move one step closer to the path that God has for our life. We gradually begin to see that we were indeed created for a purpose.
I believe one purpose of my life is to communicate my family’s experience with adhesion related disorder and fight to spread awareness of this crippling disorder. In my own way, I hope to serve as a coach as others have done for me in the past.
This has been the motivation for my life’s work and this website.
We were supposed to be fishing. In fact, mama had agreed to this lake trip because fishing was safe. Anybody can stand on the bank and throw a line in the water. Daddy, however, had decided it was time I learned how to swim. So when he suddenly threw me into the water, all mama knew was her baby was being pitched into the darkness, into the unknown, and she could only hope I would surface again.
This is how life is for most of us. Just when you think everything is safe and you have control over your life, something comes along and pitches you into the unknown. This has certainly been true throughout my life.
Life has been good. Life has been bad. Life has been joyous, beautiful, wonderful, trying, terrible, tearful, enriching, exuberating, exciting, and often downright disappointing and frustrating. But somehow, through the grace of God, we get through it. Life, we learn, is an ongoing saga of being pitched into ever-deeper waters, as our resolve and faith are tested, again and again. We have to dig deep within our soul, spitting and kicking to cope with these challenges, and yes, even try to find the humor in them as we fight to resurface once more.
When my oldest daughter became ill at age thirteen, I had no idea we were about to be plunged into dark waters. Thinking she had the flu, I expected she would be well in a matter of days. Little did I know then, fourteen years would pass before we would resurface.
My daughter’s fight with adhesion-related disorder, also known simply as adhesions, was the most difficult test of my life. The test was emotional, as I struggled to understand how to help my daughter deal with her pain and symptoms. The test was political, as I fought a medical establishment that has largely turned a deaf ear to adhesions sufferers like my daughter. The test was heart-wrenching, as my daughter suffered terribly, often screaming in pain, but I could not help her. No parent (or family) should suffer the pain of helplessness when a child is so terribly sick.
Fortunately, in life's trials, God provides us with coaches and instructors. We have people who support us, who fight for us. Those brave souls stand waiting, arms outstretched on the bank, for they rejoice in our success.
(Thank you, family and friends).
And, deep within, we have our own spirit. The God-given desire and strength to push upward, above the trials of life, above the darkness that threatens to overtake us. Each time we break the surface, we move one step closer to the path that God has for our life. We gradually begin to see that we were indeed created for a purpose.
I believe one purpose of my life is to communicate my family’s experience with adhesion related disorder and fight to spread awareness of this crippling disorder. In my own way, I hope to serve as a coach as others have done for me in the past.
This has been the motivation for my life’s work and this website.
